At night, here is an amazing way to get you into a super social mode that is very beneficial.
By following this, you literally become a one-man wrecking ball to clear obstacles in your way.
Have you ever been in a bar and seen a guy that literally knows everyone there and everyone loves him?
This technique turns you into that guy.
By mastering these skills, you level the playing field and put yourself into an entirely different league all together.
Use this in every environment that allows you the freedom to flow around the place.
Whether it is a bar, an after hours place or dance club.
I do use this on the dance floor but only in a different variation.
Also, use this to get in good with the staff and security in a venue as well.
This starts from on the street, way before entering the club. It's so simple that it's ridiculous that it works so well. 
Here goes...
Open and talk to everyone!
I'm going to do my best to explain the psychology of why I do this and why it works so well.
When in a bar type of environment, you truly don't know who knows who.
The other side of this is that no one else knows either. This allows you to exploit the general perception of events that are going on.
Start on the street and just briefly chat people up as they are passing by.
Next, when you get to the bar, start chatting up the people that are in line with you (if there is one).
This can help dramatically later. Since you've built a relationship with these people, they are now groups that you can talk to at any time of the night.
Before getting inside the bar start chatting up the doorman while he's checking out your ID. This is simple stuff.
Also, don't walk in right away as you get your ID.
You should end up maybe complimenting the bouncer on his sharp appearance, sick haircut and/or ask if he knows of any after-hours places.
One thing that Adam Lyons has mentioned before which I believe is awesome, is asking if he's thirsty or hungry and if he'd like you to get something for him.
Trust me the doorman will remember you.
This is wonderful later down the road because you know that VIP entrance (the velvet rope). If you start going there regularly and he's at the door, chances are you won't have to wait in line.
Make sure, before you enter, you introduce yourself and get his name. Remember his name.
As you enter the place, do not let your momentum go to waste.
Go start talking to the first group you see.
The interaction doesn't have to be anything fancy or for any amount of time.
If you give a compliment, give a genuine one that is tailored to them.
The power for that is in the details. It's important to include the reason why you are complimenting them and this just takes some observation.
From an outsiders perspective it looks like you truly know these people. Keep a mental note of the people that responded relatively positive to you.
Then go back to these individual groups.
With some, you may just chitchat. With others, you may throw out stuff you've pre-prepared.
The way you rock this is up to you.
By following this, you literally become a one-man wrecking ball to clear obstacles in your way.
Have you ever been in a bar and seen a guy that literally knows everyone there and everyone loves him?
This technique turns you into that guy.
By mastering these skills, you level the playing field and put yourself into an entirely different league all together.
Use this in every environment that allows you the freedom to flow around the place.
Whether it is a bar, an after hours place or dance club.
I do use this on the dance floor but only in a different variation.
Also, use this to get in good with the staff and security in a venue as well.
This starts from on the street, way before entering the club. It's so simple that it's ridiculous that it works so well. 
Here goes...
Open and talk to everyone!
I'm going to do my best to explain the psychology of why I do this and why it works so well.
When in a bar type of environment, you truly don't know who knows who.
The other side of this is that no one else knows either. This allows you to exploit the general perception of events that are going on.
Start on the street and just briefly chat people up as they are passing by.
Next, when you get to the bar, start chatting up the people that are in line with you (if there is one).
This can help dramatically later. Since you've built a relationship with these people, they are now groups that you can talk to at any time of the night.
Before getting inside the bar start chatting up the doorman while he's checking out your ID. This is simple stuff.
Also, don't walk in right away as you get your ID.
You should end up maybe complimenting the bouncer on his sharp appearance, sick haircut and/or ask if he knows of any after-hours places.
One thing that Adam Lyons has mentioned before which I believe is awesome, is asking if he's thirsty or hungry and if he'd like you to get something for him.
Trust me the doorman will remember you.
This is wonderful later down the road because you know that VIP entrance (the velvet rope). If you start going there regularly and he's at the door, chances are you won't have to wait in line.
Make sure, before you enter, you introduce yourself and get his name. Remember his name.
As you enter the place, do not let your momentum go to waste.
Go start talking to the first group you see.
The interaction doesn't have to be anything fancy or for any amount of time.
If you give a compliment, give a genuine one that is tailored to them.
The power for that is in the details. It's important to include the reason why you are complimenting them and this just takes some observation.
From an outsiders perspective it looks like you truly know these people. Keep a mental note of the people that responded relatively positive to you.
Then go back to these individual groups.
With some, you may just chitchat. With others, you may throw out stuff you've pre-prepared.
The way you rock this is up to you.
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